A Step at a Time Therapies with Nicky Edwards

About

When I trained as a therapist I had two main beliefs:
1) That life could be easier for people
2) That it shouldn’t have to involve months or years of therapy

Perhaps the greatest surprise that my clients find is that I have no desire to keep you in therapy for months, years or for the rest of your life. I want to help you feel BETTER, happier and more peaceful as quickly as possible, and contrary to old school methods this does NOT involve months of digging up the past, reliving trauma every week or feeling horrific. I have made it my mission to learn and master techniques which allow the most minimal digging in the past and the fastest route to happiness. I have watched trauma victims let go of their past in weeks, domestic violence victims face their ex partners in court after a handful of sessions and children release anxiety in less than a school term.

Obviously, every journey is different, and every client arrives in a different place, but my only goal is to help you let go of the past so that you can enjoy your life again! We don't spend the whole session in tears, grief or pain, we remove the emotional triggers, change the thinking pattern and test it to make sure it feels better - and we keep doing this until the issues are resolved or at the very least, lessened.

I love the look of surprise as my clients realise that the old feelings have gone, and I relish in saying goodbye to happier clients who can walk into their future without being held back by their past. Old school therapy techniques often believe that we must spend 12-24-36 weeks (or longer) talking through our issues - and whilst this may allow us to talk about them without tears it rarely means that the problem has gone. Sadly, many clients who arrive at my door have experienced years of traditional therapies, and whilst they can talk about issues more openly the impact of them is still alive and kicking, and often causing chaos in their lives. Which is what pushed me to train with top trainers and learn strategies, techniques and skills to cut off the old emotional pathways to trauma, anxiety and distress and rewire them to peace and calm, which means that the past gets left where it needs to be - in the past.

No path is straightforward, is it? Mine wasn’t either. I’ll be honest, choosing to change can be the hardest thing, BUT, when you do make that choice– the results can be magical!

So, who am I to say that it is possible? Having battled with and recovered from an eating disorder and experienced the hell of domestic violence, I am under no illusion that things are easy when you choose to change. However, when you find the right therapist, with the right TOOLS and METHODS and start by changing your mind-set and breaking the connections associated with the issue you are having it’s like putting petrol in a car – it just all works perfectly. Having made such huge changes myself and experienced all the obstacles and difficulties that come with them it has made me passionate about helping others who want to take back the reins and the control of their own lives.

When you give someone the freedom of a free mind they are capable of anything that they desire.

I work using a variety of therapeutic methods to offer a range of programmes to change your mind-set in the area you need. My sessions are all personalised, interactive and focussed on change. That change can seem daunting at first, but when it starts to unravel it can be addictive! Sessions support you to break the emotional attachments to your problem, re-programme your responses to trigger situations and train your mind to achieve your goals.

All I ask is for complete honesty and clarity. Our working relationship is based on trust and I can only treat what I know, sometimes those situations we do not think affect anything are at the core of the issue, so being honest is vital to us working together to change your thought processes. This allows us to devise a treatment plan which is specific to YOU and allows us to create new processes which leave you feeling empowered and in control of your futures.

To find the change you desire, you must first commit to doing the work, some sessions will be liberating, others may feel challenging as we strip back issues and look for resolution, my requirement is that you are committed to the process. Those who remain committed therefore see effective results, a desired change in behaviours and mind-set and an opportunity to live the life that they desire. This simply cannot work if you wish to blame others, refuse to do the work or withhold information, for this reason, when bringing children and teenagers for sessions it is imperative that they are on board and want to work with someone, or are at least curious. Please do not just bring them without discussing it as it breaks down trust and that can rarely be resolved and causes conflict at a time when healing is needed.

If you have any questions do not hesitate to call or email so I can answer them.

I cannot wait to start working with you!

Nicky x

 

Nicky's qualifications include: 

 

  • Current: Masters in Psychology 
  • NICABM - Working with the Fear of Rejection (2023)
  • IEMT (Integral Eye Movement Therapy) 2023 
  • Hypnotherapy Supervision (2023)
  • ADHD in the Therapy Room (2022)
  • Advanced Course in Working with Trans and Gender Diverse Clients (2022)
  • BWRT Neuroanalysis (2022) 
  • Postgraduate Diploma in Psychology of Neuroscience and Psychology of Mental Health (2022)
  • NICABM - How to work with a client's perfectionism (2021) 
  • BWRT Generation Z (2021) 
  • Level 2 - CBT for Non-Suicidal Injury (2021)
  • NCFE Understanding Autism (2020)
  • Introduction to Adverse Childhood Experiences and Early Trauma (2020)
  • Cache Level 2 Child and Young People's Mental Health (2020)
  • Level 3 Award in Supervising First Aid for Mental Health (2020)
  • Autism Awareness (2020)
  • Autism, stress and Anxiety (2020)
  • ADHD Awareness (2020)
  • Trauma Basics for Youth Workers (2020)
  • Blueprint (2020)
  • Treating Children with Tics and Tourettes (2019)
  • Lego Based Therapy Practitioner (2018)
  • OldPain2Go (2017)
  • Reiki Level 2 (2017)
  • Reiki level 1 (2017)
  • BWRT Level 2 Advanced Practitioner (2016)
  • BWRT Level 1 (2016)
  • Diploma in Life Coaching (2015)
  • Advanced Practitioner Eating Disorders (2015)
  • Diploma in Hypnobirthing (2015)
  • Advanced Diploma in NLP (February 2015)
  • Diploma in Hypnotherapy for Children (December 2014)
  • Advanced Diploma in Clinical Hypnosis (October 2014)
  • Diploma in Virtual Gastric Band Hypnosis (September 2014)
  • Diploma in Hypnotherapy and Counselling Skills (May 2014)
  • Introduction to Counselling (2012)
  • Level 4 Obesity and Diabetes Management
  • Level 3 (Active IQ) Diploma in Personal Training
  • Level 3 (Active IQ) Certificate in Exercise Prescription for Pre and Post Natal Clients
  • Level 2 (Active IQ) Certificate in Gym Instruction
  • Level 2: Health Related Exercise Instruction for Children
  • Advanced Certificate in Nutrition for Weight Management
  • Ba (Hons) Professional Studies of Learning and Development (2009)
  • Early Years Professional Status (awarded February 2009) – Level 6
  • Certificate of Education (2007) – Level 5
  • EZL124 Supporting Children’s Learning in the Early Years (October 2007)
  • ED209 Child Development (December 2004)
  • E123 Working with Children in the Early Years (January 2003)
  • City & Guilds NVQ Level 3 – Early Years Care and Education

Testimonials

Nicky, we can’t express in words the happiness we feel. We were so close to losing (child) on several occasions and when all else had failed we were so lucky to find you. Your unbelievable commitment, counsel and BWRT treatment plan has given them a bright new future and our (child) back. We can never repay what you have done for them, us and the family and you will always be in our thoughts. I pray that others are as fortunate to find you as we have been.
Client Testimonial
From the first moment I talked to Nicky over the telephone, she was instantly empathetic, supportive and had a real desire to help our family and most importantly, help my son. We began with a group session, where Nicky quickly unpicked with us all what the issues where and focussed on a collective end-goal. We continued to work together for approximately 6 months. Each session was planned in so much detail, and completely bespoke for my son. Nicky worked out what made him ‘click’ so that he could open up about his worries and talk to her confidently, in an environment and with activities that interested him. Nicky completely understood him and built on his passions and strengths to help him move forward – so much so, that he looked forward to the sessions! The time between each session extended over the months we worked together. Initially meeting fortnightly, and towards the end, we were meeting every 3-4 weeks. By the end of the programme, my son was in a position to be able to plan his own next steps and confidently articulate his strategies for the future – a moment that continues to fill me with pure joy and pride. I am certain that without the therapy provided, my son would not be the confident 11 year old that started at secondary school this term. She saw exactly what a wonderful young man he is becoming and brought out the best in him so that he saw that for himself! I would not hesitate to work with Nicky again in any capacity – and would most certainly consider using her skills in my own professional organisation.
Client Testimonial
We were happy, small family of three until I was diagnosed with the cancer. Our daughter was only 10 years old. We tried to get help through my hospital, our daughter's school, NHS, CAMHS, private counselling sessions...Not only that nothing seemed to be helping -  our daughter lost her trust in the whole process. She didn't believe that anyone can help or make it better. We were left with few incorrect diagnosis, a few unkind comments about our parenting skills and ...a daughter that we felt we are failing as we couldn't find a way to help her! That is where I have heard about this Nicky. Our daughter made a choice of going to sessions with her. Sessions were very structured. In a space of few sessions we could notice the difference in our daughter's behaviour. Nicky gained our daughter's trust and respect. With time, we could see how bit by bit Nicky managed to "untangle" all the build up over the years! Nicky would give our daughter all the help and practical tools, and she will send her off to have a practical go, by herself, in a real world. She showed our daughter, how the “labels” from the misdiagnosis in the past had affected her and helped let them go. She set her free from all the "baggage" she carried behind from the past years. She stays in touch with Nicky and will not want to speak to anyone else when she has a problem. Nicky is always there for her and helps and supports her. She always finds a time, when she is needed Words cannot describe how highly we think of Nicky and of everything that she has done for our family. Our daughter is now at one of the top Universities and just before we met Nicky we thought, that she will fail GCSE's. We do sometimes have nightmares thinking, where would we be, if we haven't found Nicky? We also sometimes wonder how different our lives would be if Nicky was the first person that we turned for help to? We truly wish that every child in need of help, that is facing a problem or trauma, could have Nicky's support straight away. Why?.. as our daughter said, "It’s just that Nicky cares!"
Client Testimonial

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